*nods* It's lovely as a story, but if it's true, it's... problematic, quite simply because they aren't honest.
Yep. But I don't really blame them. Not to get all Serious Business on what is a lovely little thread, but it's really sad that our society is such that someone can seriously think that continuing to be with their same-sex lover while ostensibly being in a relationship with a woman ISN'T cheating. (To be fair, if I was the woman in this situation, I think I'd be MORE forgiving than if he was doing the same thing with another woman, for this reason. I'd still dump him, but I'd like to think I'd get that the issue is as much about his own struggle to embrace his identity/that relationship as it is about me).
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Yep. But I don't really blame them. Not to get all Serious Business on what is a lovely little thread, but it's really sad that our society is such that someone can seriously think that continuing to be with their same-sex lover while ostensibly being in a relationship with a woman ISN'T cheating. (To be fair, if I was the woman in this situation, I think I'd be MORE forgiving than if he was doing the same thing with another woman, for this reason. I'd still dump him, but I'd like to think I'd get that the issue is as much about his own struggle to embrace his identity/that relationship as it is about me).
The 51st century can't get here fast enough!