We keep trying to get him into shape, and he keeps resisting responsibility. And it's like 'it is not my job to keep track of whether everybody is getting paid for the week. I should not have to remind you that there are new people whose times need to be added manually. I have my own department to run; I should not have to be managing you.'
Ooof. The whole thread is full of stories like this. Husbands, fathers, managers etc etc. Alas there is no magic solution, but reading [some of] it might be helpful.

Not yet. I do want to, but I didn't have time last weekend, and now it's Good Omens time.
It is a lot of fun, very feminist, very pink, full of in-jokes and I enjoyed it hugely. Please watch is at all possible - just imagine how much Crowley would love it.