I just watched this episode last week, and you've brought up so many points that I missed. I love the Intervention-Gift-Chosen connection, though I always thought of Heaven as her part of "death is your gift" - a release from all those responsibilities.

I've been trying to make icons of the episode since I watched it, but it just wasn't happening. However, reading your post seems to have finally unlocked my muse, so thank you.

I've also added you and I look forward to reading more of your BtVS posts. =)