I would point out that at least part of that is your fault. (And of course I’m grateful.) From Dating, chapter 7, and don’t think I wasn’t remembering it while watching Anna Netrebko sing:

“That’s an idea. Except not Mal.”

“Why not?”

“Two words: Hero coat.”

She frowned.

“Hero coat?”

“Hero coat. Don’t like them, won’t wear them. You got me into a suit for the formal dinner, but that’s as far as I’ll go.”